I find the agency of "grooming" very complexing...I don't understand how some one doesn't see the young version of someone if they knew them when that person was a kid and you're an adult. A few years back my sister n law along with her mother would push me so hard to date her little sister who at the time was like 19 and I was 34 but I kept rejecting the idea because it was weird to me, and at the time the little sister did have a crush on me but I knew the little sister for years...like literally when she was like 12....so the whole thing to me was just too weird and I don't have any regrets for not dating her...FYI the little sister ended up in a relationship with 50 year old dude...once again I'm perplexed while scratching my head as to why??